Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo: Abashayeli baziphatha njengempisi emgwaqeni
U-Andrzej Markowski, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yomgwaqo, iphini likamongameli we-Association of Transport Psychologists ePoland, ukhuluma ngokuthi kungani amadoda amaningi ebheka ukushayela njengokulwa nokuthi angabhekana kanjani nolaka lwasemgwaqweni.
Ingabe amadoda ashayela kangcono kunabesifazane noma okubi kakhulu? Izibalo zamaphoyisa zishiya kungangabazeki ukuthi adala ezinye izingozi.
- Amadoda awagijimi kakhulu kunabesifazane, anezingozi eziningi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi bashayela ngesivinini, bashayela ngokukhulu isibindi, banesilinganiso esiphansi kakhulu sokuphepha kunabesifazane. Badinga nje ukubukisa phambi kwabantu besifazane, bakhone emgwaqeni, okudalwa wulibofuzo.
Ngakho-ke kukhona amathiyori webhayoloji mayelana nomzabalazo wabesilisa wokubusa emgwaqeni?
- Yebo, futhi lokhu akuyona inkolelo-mbono, kodwa umkhuba. Endabeni yomshayeli wesilisa, indlela ehluke ngokuphelele yengqondo yakhe isebenza kunesimo sowesifazane. Umuntu ulwa kuqala kuqala emhlambini, uma ngingasebenzisa igama elivela emhlabeni wezilwane. Ngakho-ke kufanele akhokhise, ngaphambi kwabanye, azibonakalise njalo futhi afakazele amandla akhe. Ngale ndlela, umfana uzihlinzeka ngokwakhe - noma mhlawumbe ufuna ukukwenza ngokungazi - ukufinyelela kwabesifazane abaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi lokhu, eqinisweni, kuyisayensi yezinto eziphilayo zohlobo lwabantu - hhayi kuphela uhlobo lwabantu. Ngakho-ke, indlela yokushayela yamadoda lapho esemncane ihlukile kweyabesifazane. Esimeni sakamuva, ubudlova cishe abukho embuzweni, nakuba, njengenjwayelo, kukhona okuhlukile.
Ngakho ungakwazi ukulinganisa kusenesikhathi ukuthi ubani oshayelayo ngaphandle kokubheka iwindshield?
- Ngokuvamile ungakwazi. Umshayeli wesilisa onolwazi, onolwazi ekulweni emgwaqweni, angatshela ekude ukuthi ubani oshayela imoto: imbangi yakhe, i.e. enye indoda, ilungu lobulili obuhle, noma umnumzane ogqoke isigqoko. Phela, yilokhu okuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi amadoda amadala, "abashayeli bangeSonto" abakhetha ukugibela okuthulile futhi, ngokumangalisayo, bavame ukugqoka izigqoko. Ngaphandle uma bobabili abengeziwe kanye nomnumzane ogqoke isigqoko bahamba ngokuzolile.
Impi enjalo yabesilisa emgwaqeni, ngeshwa, inesandulela sayo esidabukisayo - izingozi, ukufa, ukukhubazeka kwabanye abasebenzisi bomgwaqo abaningi.
“Futhi lokhu kufanele sikuqaphele ngaphambi kokuthi siphushe kakhulu i-gas pedal emotweni. Ngaphandle kwalezi zimo zebhayoloji, kufanelekile futhi kufanele ukushayela ngokuhambisana nemithetho yomgwaqo. Miningi eminye imiqhudelwano.
Bheka futhi: Ulaka ngenkathi ushayela - indlela yokubhekana nabantu abahlanya emigwaqweni
