Ungabuthola kanjani ubuntu bomshayeli webhayisikili
Uma ngokusebenza isithuthuthu singabhekwa njengendlela elula yokuhamba. Nokho, abashayeli bamabhayisikili abaningi bacabangela isithuthuthu ukuzilibazisangisho uthando, ngakho-ke banake ngokukhethekileyo kubo ubuntu bebhayisikili.
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kwesithuthuthu kusho okuningi ngawe futhi besifuna ukwenza namuhla isimo sakho sengqondo ngezithuthuthu... Ikakhulukazi, yakho identité njengomshayeli webhayisikili.
Abesifazane bathanda imibimbi
Inani labahamba ngamabhayisikili besifazane liyakhula minyaka yonke: cishe Njalo ngonyaka bangu-15 abesifazane ababhalisela ukuhlolwa kwelayisensi yezithuthuthu. (A2).
Kuyiqiniso impela, emgwaqeni sihlangana nabesifazane abaningi abahamba ngezithuthuthu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amabhrendi andisa amakhathalogi awo ngokunikela ngezinto zokusebenza. iguqulelwe ku-morphology yabesifazane futhi udale amaqoqo aklanyelwe abesifazane ngokukhethekile.
Kwabaningi, izithuthuthu zinemvumelwano negama inkululeko, ukukhululeka kwezokuthutha et i-adrenaline... Zonke lezi zizathu, nakuba zikhona ezinye, ziholela abesifazane ukuba bathathe izithuthuthu ukuhamba, Hamba uye emsebenzini ou thatha uhambo Ezintabeni.
Kwabanye, ukugibela izithuthuthu kuwukuzilibazisa ngokwakho.
Izithuthuthu njengendlela yokuphumula
Uma uthanda ukugibela isithuthuthu, cishe uzosithanda ngasohlangothini lwaso. "Ukuphulukisa".
Impela abaningi bathi bazilungisa kabusha uma bebambe isiteringi. Njengoba ukujikeleza kudinga ukugxila, imibono eyengeziwe и Imicabango engemihle asikho isikhathi sokukhombisa amakhala.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umuzwa wejubane awunakuqhathaniswa nomuzwa wejubane emotweni: kubonakala sengathi ushaya umusi noma uveza imizwa ethile! (ngaphakathi kwemikhawulo yesivinini, kunjalo 😉).
Uma usenkingeni, ibhayisikili lingaba super i-antidepressant, okwenza ukhohlwe yikho konke. Ushiya izinkathazo zakho ekhaya futhi uhlanze ingqondo yakho.
Akukho lutho olungcono kunendawo enhle noma umgwaqo omusha. umalume.
Ibhayisikili ngalinye linezalo ugqozi gibela amasondo amabili.
Futhi wena, yimuphi umshayeli webhayisikili ocashile ngaphakathi kwakho?
- Ingabe (ngokuyimfihlo) uyasithanda isitayela kanye ne-charisma ekunika yona?
- Ingabe uyayithanda inkululeko enikezwa izithuthuthu?
- Ingabe uthanda injabulo yesithuthuthu?
- Uyathanda ukuthola okokusebenza kwakamuva kwesimanjemanje?
Kwa-Les Bikeuses, sizitshele ukuthi ungathanda ukuthola umazisi wakho ngokuthatha (kakhulu, kakhulu) imibuzo ejabulisayo. ... Ithimba lonke lihlangene ukuze lenze imibuzo ezokutshela okwengeziwe ngawe kanye nohambo lwakho.
Ekupheleni kwalokhu kuhlolwa, uzothola ukuthi uluhlobo luni lwebhayisikili futhi uthole incazelo eningiliziwe yalokho okuthandayo ngebhayisikili.
Kulabo abathanda lo mbono futhi abafuna ukuqhubekela phambili, sinikeza ngisho nezincomo zemishini eyenziwe ngomthungo ngokusekelwe kwisitayela sakho sokugibela.
Ngakho-ke ingabe usukulungele (ukuphinda) uzenzele kabusha? (Qaphela, uzomangala!)
isiphetho
Ukuphetha lesi sihloko, besifuna ngokukhethekile ukukukhumbuza lokho izizathu eziningi zikhona ukuze wehle isithuthuthu futhi ujabulele umgwaqo.
Mhlawumbe usanda kuqala ukushushuluza futhi umdlandla wakho usezingeni eliphezulu.
Noma mhlawumbe ngesipiliyoni isithuthuthu sesiyingxenye yakho.
Kunoma ikuphi, ilangabi elikuphilisayo awukwazi ukusuka lapho ubeka incazelo kulo mkhuba omuhle wokugibela amabhayisikili.
Sitshele kumazwana ukuthi yini ekugqugquzela kakhulu lapho ugibela isithuthuthu! Siyojabula ukuzifunda 😀
