Ukuhamba ngemoto nezingane. Yini okufanele uyikhumbule?

Esethulweni sigxile kumakharavani ngamabomu kunamakhempa. Ezokuqala zivame ukusetshenziswa imindeni enezingane. Kungani? Okokuqala, ukuhlala nabancane kuhlala kumile. Sihamba ngendlela ethile eya emakamu ukuze sihlale lapho okungenani izinsuku eziyishumi. Ukuhamba nokubuka indawo okuhilela ukushintsha indawo njalo kuyogcina kubakhathaze bobabili abazali nezingane. Okwesibili, sinemoto eseyenziwe ngomumo esingahlola ngayo indawo ezungeze ikamu. Okwesithathu futhi ekugcineni, ikharavani ifaneleka kangcono imindeni ngokwenani lemibhede etholakalayo kanye nesikhala ama-motorhomes angenaso. 

Nokho, into eyodwa eqinisekile: izingane zizothandana ngokushesha ne-caravaning. Ukuzijabulisa kwangaphandle, ithuba lokuchitha isikhathi esingenandaba endaweni enhle (ulwandle, ichibi, izintaba), ukuzijabulisa okwengeziwe emakamu futhi, yiqiniso, inkampani yezinye izingane. Izingane zethu zikudinga ngempela lokhu okwakamuva ngemva kwesikhathi esingangonyaka zokufunda ibanga nokuhlala kakhulu ekhaya. 

I-trailer inikeza izingane indawo yazo siqu, ihlelwe futhi ilungiselelwe ngokuvumelana nemithetho yabo, ebonakala ngokuzinza nokungaguquki. Lokhu kuhluke ngokuphelele emakamelweni ehhotela. Lena enye ingxabano evuna ukuya eholidini “nekhaya lakho elinamasondo”.

Kunemihlahlandlela eminingi yokuhamba nekharavani etholakala ku-inthanethi. Izihloko okuxoxiwe ngazo zifaka phakathi ukuvikela kahle i-motorhome noma ukuvikela kahle i-trailer kuhuku, okunomthelela omkhulu ekuphepheni kwethu nasekuphepheni kwabanye. Lesi sikhathi sifuna ukunakwa ekulungiseleleni okulungile kohambo mayelana nokuhamba nezingane, ikakhulukazi uma ukwenza okokuqala. Uhlelo olufanele olwakhiwe kusenesikhathi luzokuvumela ukuthi ube neholide elingenazinkathazo, kokubili ngokomzila kanye nokuhlala kwakho endaweni yokukhempa.

Ikakhulukazi imayelana nepulani yaphansi eklanyelwe umndeni wethu. Kungamaveni okwenza kube nokwenzeka ukuhlalisa, isibonelo, izingane ezintathu emibhedeni ehlukene, ukuze ngamunye wabo alale ngokuthula nangokuphepha. Amabhulokhi amakhudlwana angabuye afakwe amagumbi okuphumula ezingane ahlukene, lapho izingane zethu zingachitha isikhathi ndawonye ngokukhululekile ngisho nasemvuleni. Uma ufuna i-trailer, kufanelekile ukubheka lezo ezihlinzeka ngemibhede ehlala njalo yezingane, ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuyigoqa bese ishiya indawo yokuhlala. Izinkinga zokuphepha nazo zibalulekile: Ingabe imibhede ephezulu inamanethi ukuze ivimbele ukuthi ingawi? Ingabe kulula ukungena nokuphuma embhedeni? 

Amakharavani asendle awanconywa ohambweni lomndeni, ikakhulukazi lawo anezingane ezincane. Ukukhempa akuhlinzeki nje ngokuzijabulisa okwengeziwe, kodwa futhi kuqinisekisa ukuphepha kokuhlala kwethu. Kuyasiza futhi. Iziza zinamanzi, ugesi kanye nendle ngakho-ke asikho isidingo sokuzikhathaza ngokuchichima kwamathangi noma ukuntuleka kukagesi. Izimo zenhlanzeko zilungele wonke umuntu - izihlambi ezinkulu, ezivulekile nezindlu zangasese ezigcwele zizokwaziswa ngabantu abadala kanye nezingane. Kuyafaneleka ukunaka izengezo: izindlu zangasese zomndeni ezilungiselelwe izingane (ikakhulukazi phesheya, asizange sikubone okunjalo ePoland), ukuba khona kwamatafula okushintsha izingane. 

Amakamu nawo aheha izingane. Inkundla yokudlala yezingane iyadingeka, kodwa kufanelekile ukubuza mayelana nezitifiketi ezifanele. Izindawo ezinkulu zokukhempa zitshala imali eningi ekuvikelekeni kwengqalasizinda yazo. Ukuba sesikhungweni esinjalo, singaqiniseka cishe ukuthi akukho lutho oluzokwenzeka enganeni yethu ngenkathi sisebenzisa, isibonelo, isilayidi noma i-swing. Amakamelo okudlala aklanyelwe izingane ezincane kakhulu nawo anezindonga namakhona avikelwe kahle. Masiqhubekele phambili: indawo yokukhempa enhle izophinde itshale imali engilazini eqinisekisiwe engeke ilimaze ingane uma iwela kuyo. Futhi sazi kahle kamhlophe ukuthi izimo ezinjalo zingenzeka.

Uma ukhempa, kufanele futhi ukhumbule ukubekisa indawo. Lokhu kungase kubonakale kuphambene nomoya wokuhamba ngezimoto, kodwa noma ubani ohamba nezingane uzovuma ukuthi into embi kakhulu lapho ufika ngemva kohambo olude ukuzwa: akukho ndawo. 

Cha, asikho isidingo sokuthi uhambe nendlu yakho yonke ngekharaveni yakho. Okokuqala: Amathoyizi/izinsiza eziningi ngeke zisetshenziswe nguwe noma izingane zakho. Okwesibili: umthamo wokuthwala, olinganiselwe kakhulu kumaveni. Imotorhome ingakhuluphala kalula, okuzophazamisa umzila, ukusetshenziswa kukaphethiloli nokuphepha. Ngakho ungaziqinisekisa kanjani izingane ukuthi zidinga kuphela ukuthatha lokho ezikudingayo? Vumela ingane yakho ukuthi isebenzise indawo yokugcina eyodwa. Angapakisha amathoyizi akhe awathandayo nezilwane ezigxishiwe kuwo. Lesi kuzoba yindawo yakhe. Okungangeni ekhomishini yamagilavu ​​kuhlala ekhaya.

Lokhu kusobala, kodwa sivame ukukhohlwa ngakho. Izingane kufanele ziphathe umazisi, ikakhulukazi lapho zeqa umngcele. Esimweni samanje, kufanelekile ukuhlola ngaphansi kwaziphi izimo ingane engangena ezweni elithile. Ingabe ukuhlolwa kuyadingeka? Uma kunjalo, iyiphi?

Isikhathi esishesha kakhulu lapho amazwi athi “siyoba khona nini” avela ezindebeni zomntwana wethu oneminyaka engu-6 kwakuyimizuzu engaba ngu-15 ngemva kokuphuma endlini. Esikhathini esizayo, ngezinye izikhathi ukushayela amakhilomitha angu-1000 (noma ngaphezulu), siyiqonda kahle intukuthelo, ukucasuka nokungabi namandla (noma konke ngesikhathi esisodwa) kwabazali. Okufanele ngikwenze? Ziningi izindlela. Okokuqala nje, umzila omude kufanele uhlelwe ngezigaba. Mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukuma endleleni eya endaweni oya kuyo, isibonelo kwezinye izindawo ezikhangayo? Amadolobha amakhulu, amapaki amanzi, amapaki okuzijabulisa ayizinketho eziyisisekelo nje. Uma uzimisele, ukushayela ubusuku bonke kuwumqondo omuhle kakhulu, inqobo nje uma izingane zilele ngempela (umntwana wethu oneminyaka engu-9 akasoze alala emotweni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umzila omude kangakanani). Esikhundleni sezikrini (esiphinde sizisebenzisele ukubalekela izimo ezibucayi), sivamise ukulalela ama-audiobook noma sidlale imidlalo ndawonye (“Ngiyabona…”, ukuqagela imibala, izinhlobo zezimoto). 

Singakhohlwa futhi ngamakhefu. Ngokwesilinganiso, kufanele sime njalo emahoreni amathathu ukuze selule amathambo ethu esisaga. Khumbula ukuthi ekharaveni ngesikhathi sekhefu elinjalo singalungisa ukudla okunomsoco, okunempilo ngemizuzu embalwa nje. Masisebenzise ithuba lokuba khona "kwendlu enamasondo" kuhuku.