I-psychology yezokuthutha - umhlahlandlela

Siwakala kanjani amakhono ethu okushayela? Kuvele ukuthi asithobekile kakhulu. Kunalokho, sivame ukuweqisa amakhono ethu.

Singabashayeli abanjani?

I-Phenomenalnymi.

Lesi simo sibonakala emiphumeleni yocwaningo lwabashayeli abahlola amakhono abo nawabanye abantu. U-80% wabaphenduli babheka amakhono abo njengamahle kakhulu, kuyilapho ngesikhathi esifanayo bechaza amakhono angu-50% "abanye" abashayeli njenganele.

Uhlobo lwesigameko sezibalo. Ngeshwa, kade kwaziwa ukuthi kubashayeli basePoland abayizigidi ezingu-20, abayizigidi ezingu-30 bangochwepheshe bokushayela, othisha nabafundisi bokushayela. Ukungabi bikho kokuzihlola okuhlosiwe kwabashayeli kungesinye sezizathu ezenza kube nezinga eliphansi lokuphepha emigwaqeni yethu. Akwaziwa ukuthi kungani ikhono lokushayela imoto laba imfanelo yomuntu. Akuwenzi umqondo ukusola izinga eliphansi lokuqeqeshwa kokushayela. Udinga ukuqeqesha njalo. Imboni yezimoto ayimile. Leli elinye lamagatsha athuthukayo kakhulu empilweni yempucuko.

Umuntu ochaza amakhono akhe ngokusekelwe kokuthi "...Ngineminyaka engu-20 nginezincwadi zokushayela futhi ngingumshayeli onekhono....". angase futhi athi ungusosayensi omkhulu wamakhompiyutha ngoba uyakwazi ukubhala futhi wafunda izinto eziyisisekelo zezibalo eminyakeni engu-20 edlule.

Abashayeli abathandekayo!

Ake siqale ngokwethu. Uma singakuvumi ngokwethu ukuthi asiphelele, ngeke sifune ukuthuthuka. Kungani kufanele kuthuthukiswe lokho okuphelele? Futhi abekho abashayeli abafanelekile, kukhona abanenhlanhla kuphela abaye bazuza impumelelo.