Igumbi labafowethu nodadewethu - ukuthi lingahlonyiswa kanjani futhi likwenze kube lula ukwabelana?

Ukuhlelela izingane zakini ikamelo elivamile kungaba inselele yangempela. Kulesi simo, umzali ngamunye ufuna ikhambi elilula elizophazamisa izithakazelo zezingane zombili, lanelise isidingo sazo sokuba ngasese futhi liqinisekise ukuthi ukuhlala kwabo ekamelweni elilodwa kuqhubeka ngokuvumelana, ngaphandle kwezingxabano. Seluleka ukuthi wenzeni!

Kukhona abafowethu nodadewethu abasondelene kakhulu, abalingana ngeminyaka. Lesi isimo esikhululekile kubazali, ngoba ke akunzima ukuhlomisa igumbi elilodwa kubo bobabili izingane ngenxa yezithakazelo ezifanayo nezigaba zokuthuthukiswa. Kungenye into lapho kunomehluko ngeminyaka phakathi kwezingane. Ngokuvamile kunalokho ngokushesha, abadala baqala ukuzwa isidingo sobumfihlo nendawo yomuntu siqu. Yini okufanele uyenze kuleli cala?

Indlela yokuhlomisa igumbi labazalwane nodade bobudala obuhlukene? 

Umehluko omkhulu weminyaka phakathi kwezingane udala inkinga enkulu kubazali abahlomisa igumbi elivamile kubo. Okuthakaselayo okuhlukile, izindlela zokuchitha isikhathi samahhala, ukubuka komhlaba ngisho nesikhathi sokulala - zonke lezi zici zingaba umthombo wokungqubuzana esikhathini esizayo.

Igumbi elincane lingase lidinge umbhede owumbhede. Lapho uwakhetha, naka ibanga elifanele phakathi komatilasi kanye nokulula kokwehla usuka phezulu. Isitezi esiphezulu akufanele sisetshenziswe izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-4-5 ubudala. Bachazele imiphumela engaba khona yokwehla ngokunganaki noma ukugxuma usuka phansi.

Lapho uhlela ikamelo, khumbula ukuthi izingane zakini ezincane ngokuvamile zithanda ukulingisa abadala bazo. Uma ingane encane nomfundi wesikole samabanga aphansi bezohlala ndawonye, ​​khumbula ukuthi bobabili kufanele babe nezindlu zabo. Nikeza umuntu omdala indawo yokufunda, okungcono leyo ingane encane engakwazi ukufinyelela kuyo okulinganiselwe. Mnikeze, isibonelo, inkundla yokudlala encane. Angakwazi ukudweba kalula noma ukuphenya izincwadi. Ungakhohlwa ukubeka ekamelweni, ngaphezu kwedeski, itafula elincane elivumelaniswe nobukhulu bengane encane.

Igumbi lezingane zakini ezilingana naye 

Endabeni yezingane noma amavukela-mbuso angakwazi ukuyekethisa, ngezinye izikhathi ikhambi elingcono kakhulu ukuhlanganisa ingaphakathi. Izindonga ezingenalutho kanye nefenisha elula yenza isisekelo esihle sokuhlobisa igumbi elishintshayo njengoba izingane zikhula.

Lesi sinqumo sakha umuzwa wobulungisa ngoba akekho noyedwa kubantwana ozizwa enelungelo. Alula, amashalofu ahlangene, amakhabethe, izindawo zokulala, imibhede namadeski ayisiqalo esihle sokuthuthukiswa kwezincwadi zengane ngayinye, imifanekiso, izilwane ezigxishiwe nezinto zomuntu siqu, okwenza ingxenye ngayinye yegumbi ibe umbuso wayo.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi abafundi babe namadeski ahlukene, okungcono abe namadrowa. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi ugweme ukungqubuzana ngokuhamba kwesikhathi osichithe lapho, isikhathi somsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya, imfuhlumfuhlu esele ngemuva, noma amakhrayoni anganelisiwe. Endaweni encane, ideski elingase libe indawo yangasese. Vumela ingane yakho ikhethe izesekeli ezifana nomhleli wedeski noma isithombe esingenhla. Kulapho amaphethini ahlanyayo nemibala ingabusa khona, ngisho noma ingane yakho yesibili inokunambitha okuhluke kakhulu.

Ungabelana kanjani ngekamelo lomfowethu noma likadade? 

Ukuhlukaniswa kwekamelo kungenzeka ezindizeni ezahlukene. Mhlawumbe isinqumo esisobala kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ezinganeni zakubo zobulili obuhlukene, umbala wezindonga. Ungavumela izingane zikhethe imibala eziyithandayo (inqobo nje uma ifanelana noma kancane). Ngokungeziwe kumapende, ungasebenzisa futhi iphepha lodonga lomuntu siqu ezingxenyeni zodonga noma izitika zodonga.

Igumbi lingabuye lihlukaniswe ngendlela encane yendabuko. Zama ukusebenzisa izilungiselelo zefenisha ezivumela ingane ngayinye ukuba ibe nengxenye yayo yekamelo. Ezimweni lapho izingane zakini zinomehluko omkhulu weminyaka noma nje ukuthambekela okukhulu kokuxabana, ukuhlukaniswa ngokomzimba kwegumbi kungasetshenziswa.

Isixazululo esivame kakhulu ukuhlukanisa izingxenye zekamelo ngefenisha izingane zombili ezizokwazi ukufinyelela kuzo, njengebhokisi lezincwadi. Isixazululo esithakazelisayo ukuphinde uhlukanise ingxenye yekamelo ngekhethini. Kuye ngobukhulu bekamelo kanye nokufinyelela efasiteleni, ungakhetha ikhethini elisobala, elivamile noma elimnyama. Lokhu kokugcina kufanelekile ukunakwa ikakhulukazi esimweni lapho enye yezingane isheshe ilale, kanti enye ithanda ukufunda izincwadi noma ukufunda sekwephuzile.

Lapho uthatha isinqumo sokuhlala ekamelweni elilodwa nabafowethu nodadewethu, cabangela umehluko weminyaka yobudala kanye nobuntu bezingane, umlutha, kanye nesimo sengqondo nokukhononda. Kuye ngalezi zici, ungakwazi ukuhlukanisa igumbi ngokomfanekiso noma ngokuphelele ngokomzimba. Kodwa-ke, khumbula ukuthi ngisho nezingane zakini ezivumelana kakhulu ngezinye izikhathi zidinga ikhefu komunye nomunye, ngakho-ke nikeza ingane ngayinye okungenani indawo encane yomuntu siqu.

Ungathola imibono eyengeziwe yangaphakathi esigabeni engihlobisa futhi ngihlobisa.