Ingabe kuphephile ukushayela ngesondo elivuza kancane?
Ukushayela ngokuvuza kancane ithayi kungase kube yingozi ngoba kungaholela ekubhobozeni. Lapho isondo seliphantshile, lingaba yingozi. Ukuqhuma kungase kubangele ukuba ulahlekelwe ukulawula imoto yakho, okuholela...
Ukushayela ngokuvuza kancane ithayi kungase kube yingozi ngoba kungaholela ekubhobozeni. Lapho isondo seliphantshile, lingaba yingozi. Ukuqhuma kungase kubangele ukuba ungakwazi ukulawula imoto yakho, kubeke wena nabanye engozini yengozi yemoto. Uma ubona ukuthi amathayi akho awawubambi umoya ngendlela okufanele uwubambe ngayo, noma uzithola ulokhu umpompa umoya ethayini, isondo lakho lingase livuze kancane kancane. Kungcono ukuyisa isondo kumakhenikha ukuze akwazi ukuhlonza inkinga futhi alungise ukuvuza kanye/noma isondo. Kunezindlela eziningana zokuhlola ithayi ukuthi alivuzi yini.
Nakhu okufanele ukubheke uma uzwa sengathi elinye lamasondo akho livuza kancane:
Enye indlela yokuhlola ukuthi alivuzi yini ukulalela isondo elisolisayo. Kwesinye isikhathi uzokwazi ukuzwa umoya ocindezelwe uphuma embotsheni encane yesondo. Kuyoba njengomsindo omncane. Uma uzwa lokhu, yenza i-aphoyintimenti nomakhenikha ukuze inkinga yakho yesondo ihlolwe futhi ilungiswe.
Enye indlela yokuhlola ukuthi akukho yini ukuvuza kwesondo ukugijima isandla sakho phezu kwendawo yonke yesondo ukuze uzwe umoya uphuma. Uma usola indawo eyodwa, gxila ngokubeka isandla sakho kuleyo ndawo ukuze ubone ukuthi uyawuzwa yini umoya. Amathuba okuthi uma unembobo encane uzokwazi ukuzwa umoya ocindezelwe ubaleka.
Isondo eliphansi le-psi lingabangela ukushisa kwesondo, okungaholela ekugugeni futhi ekugcineni liqhume. Uma ukuvuza kancane kushiywa kunganakiwe, kungase kulahleke lonke isondo futhi kuyodingeka kushintshwe, kuyilapho ngaphambili ithayi belingalungiswa ngesichibi esincane noma ipulaki. Ukuvuza kudinga ukulungiswa okubanzi kunalokho okulula ubungake uhlolele ukuvuza lapho uqala ukukusola.
Ukushayela ngesondo elivuzayo kancane kuyingozi, ikakhulukazi ngesivinini esikhulu. Uma sekuvuzile, isondo kufanele lihlolwe uchwepheshe. Uma isondo lihluleka ngenkathi ushayela, libangele ukuthi liqhume, ungase ulahlekelwe ukulilawula futhi ulimaze wena nabanye. Uma usola ukuthi isondo livuza, qiniseka ukuthi liyalungiswa noma lifakwe umakhenikha ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze ugweme ukwenzeka okuthile okubi kakhulu.
