Ingabe kuphephile ukushayela ukhanyise ithangi legesi?
Unakho ngezinye izikhathi okubonakala njengezibani ezingenakubalwa zokuxwayisa emotweni yakho. Ezinye zazo zikuxwayisa ngezinkinga ezinkulu kakhulu. Abanye, hhayi kakhulu. Amanye amalambu avele anikeze ulwazi futhi ilambu lakho legesi lingenye yazo….
Unakho ngezinye izikhathi okubonakala njengezibani ezingenakubalwa zokuxwayisa emotweni yakho. Ezinye zazo zikuxwayisa ngezinkinga ezinkulu kakhulu. Abanye, hhayi kakhulu. Ezinye izibani zinikeza ulwazi, futhi isibani sakho segesi singenye yazo. Uma lokho kukhanya kukhanya, okudingeka ukwazi ukuthi awunaso isivalo segesi. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukhohlwe ukuyibuyisela ngesikulufu ngemva kokugcwalisa uphethiloli, futhi ungase uthole lokhu kuyisikhumbuzo esiwusizo sokuthi cishe kufanele uphume emotweni futhi uyikhiphe esivalweni se-trunk noma kwenye indawo lapho obuyishiye khona.
Ngakho-ke yebo, ungashayela ngokuphepha nesibani sethangi legesi sivuliwe. Manje, kunjalo, uyazibuza ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukushayela ngokuphepha ngaphandle kwesivalo segesi. Impendulo emfushane: yebo. Uma ukwazi ukushayela ukhanyise ithangi legesi, ungashayela ngaphandle kwethangi likaphethiloli. Kodwa udinga ukwazi okulandelayo:
Ukushayela ngaphandle kwesivalo sethangi likaphethiloli ngeke kulimaze injini yakho.
Ukushayela ngaphandle kwesivalo sethangi legesi ngeke kumoshe uphethiloli. Imoto yakho ine-flap valve eyakhelwe kuyo evimbela uphethiloli ukuthi ungaphumi ethangini lakho. Ingozi kuphela lapha uma ubunganakile ngokwanele ukuncika endaweni yokufaka uphethiloli futhi uveze umthombo wokuthungela njengogwayi ovuthayo ongathungela intuthu ephumayo.
Ukushayela ngaphandle kwesivalo sethangi likaphethiloli ngeke kuvumele intuthu eyingozi ukuthi ingene ngaphakathi kwemoto.
Okuwukuphela kwenkinga yangempela lapha ayihlobene nokuphepha - ukuthi kuze kube yilapho ushintsha isivalo segesi esingekho, kuzodingeka uhlale nesibani sethangi likaphethiloli. Ngemuva kokufaka isivalo sethangi legesi, ukukhanya kufanele kucime. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi isistimu ithatha isikhathi ukusetha kabusha, ngakho kungase kudingeke ukuthi ushayele isikhashana ngaphambi kokuthi izibani zicime ngokuphelele. Uma ingaphumi ngaphakathi, yithi, amamayela ayikhulu, kungase kube nezinye izinkinga futhi kufanele uvakashele umakhenikha ukuze askene isistimu yakho futhi alungise inkinga. Kwa-AvtoTachki, singakumiselela indawo yesivalo sethangi lakho, futhi sihlole noma yiziphi izinkinga ezingabangela ukukhanya kwethangi lakho likaphethiloli ukuthi kuhlale kukhanye ngisho nangemva kokuba isivalo sesishintshiwe.
